Sunday, July 10, 2011

New Chapter of my life.....


Suddenly seeing other's blog remind myself that I had a blog too...
but I did not write it for a period of time..




I came to Singapore for about 4months...
Go thru all the exams and stresses and I start flying to sky.....
I really fly thru the world now....

I can loudly said, " TOday My Life Begin"......





Monday, January 17, 2011

好男人?什么是好男人?

一个人生活有一段日子了。。。
最近看了一本图文书。。。是一个很可爱的台湾女孩画的。是说了她的恋爱世界。。。她叫SANA!
我认为是一本好好笑又好有意思的一本书。。。

她说就算几忙都要谈谈恋爱。。。
不过,对我来说也要找到一个适合得!

我相信每个人都有想要的好男人吧!
我也有!
心理想要的好男人:-
1)不抽咽(前几个都是咽鬼,不过在我面前还是会让我三分):这叫报应!话不要说得太早!

2)关心和体贴 (他们都有做到):
先讲讲关心,什么是关心?关心我说的话,关心我做的事?对我来说,关心应该是关怀另一个人所有的大小事吧。。体贴!我学会懂什么是体贴是从我的姨丈!他让我看到什么是体贴。。。从小到大,他吃饭时都会拿菜,去骨塔,等等等,肯定我的阿姨盘上有了食物,他还会开始吃!可能对某某人来说是很小的事,不过,你能真的十多年了还是一样吗?他就是这样的一个好男人。
我也有过这样的男人。不过是不一样的方式吧。可能有了姨丈来比较所以要求就多了!

3)疼爱:
我很爱人疼。也很幸福,因为碰到的都很疼我。
他认为疼爱是把所有的生活照顾的好好。当你出去买东西时,他会付钱,会帮你拿!当你生病是会太你去看医生。当你肚子饿了就会带你去吃。就是让你很喜欢,享受这样的疼爱也无忧无利的依赖着。不过没了的事后,刚开始就好像一只断了翅膀的小鸟。。。
飞不起来了,应为我也忘了要这样飞!

4)沟通 :
这个对我来说好难。。。最难的一个条件!每个人都认为沟通是最容易。不过,
沟通了要另外一方明白和了解是不容易。男人跟女人要的沟通方式也不一样。
男人认为是小事对女人来说是大事。对女人来说是小事,男人又觉得是大事。
我觉得沟通是很难,不过没有沟通一段恋爱是不能长长久久。

5)高(都很高哦):
我就是有这个怪癖。我只喜欢长得高的男人。如果,那个他没有长得超过
170公分的话,对我来所就是矮!虽让我不高,只有158公分!因为,
我认为没安全感。没能保护我吧!

6)要有事业,金钱 :
我不是要求是个大富豪,不过至少不愁吃,不愁装,不愁卖!不需要担心
这个月的钱只能足够欢电费,车期就没了!可以说我是个现实的女人,不过,
我觉得这是我保护自己的方式。男人不就是要盖好一个安乐窝保护着心爱
的女人让她无烦恼的在家等着你们回家吗?

7)不吝啬(没碰见过):
因为,吝啬的人就会很自私。尤其是对我和我的家里人吝啬的男人,我绝对不能
接受。


暂时,我只能想到这里了!不过,我知道往往我们是找不到我们想要的好男人!
希望我能真的有一个很像。。。我要的好男人吧!

这是我29岁时想要的。。。。
也有可能,我会跟着年龄或环境而改变我要的好男人条件!








Saturday, October 16, 2010

Loneliness....




Lonely?? What is the meaning?
One day, I asked a friend of mine this question," Don't you felt lonely sometimes?
He gave me a really good answer.....and I think I learned from the answer!
He told me," Loneliness is just state of mind. You can be alone but still not feel lonely. This is something that we all have to learn, how to enjoy doing things by ourself, without the constant need of a companion."
Frankly speaking, I think everyone know what it means but does everyone know how to do it?
I think I really need to do it not just understand it.......
But ,do you know that there are animals live alone for their entire life?
Such as, almost all spider, orang utan , leopard, eagles, polar bear and etc.........
So, what about you? Can you live alone? Or learn to enjoy doing things when you alone?
And..........I'm still learning too.........

Monday, September 27, 2010

Taipei Part 1

I been to taipei many times....but this is the first time I came here with my parents. It's a very different experience to me....cos there are lots of things that we need to take care of their needs...what to eat,where to go and they tired or not....for us,even tired we still can able to walk around until we half dead....

Somehow,I can understand why they are tired....and all the things that mummy bought are all for the family members....mummy always love children!I love my mummy!

When we reach hotel,we still do face mask together.....they also fall asleep very early...
But,I know that enjoy the trip so far.....that's what I love it too.....

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Taking Flt Alone....

I always travel to taipei and alone....but today the feeling seems so different....
Felt a bit lonely today but also felt really calm and quiet...
I missed someone to travel with me so much....
I missed laying beside his shoulder while travel....taking pics with him while travel....
Maybe I really get used with him around....

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Huggings.........Penguin!!!!

One of my friend send me a card....The front page of the card it's a picture of a penguin walking with flips open widely in the snow....

Have you guys always thought why penguin walk with its flips open widely? For balancing?For using it whenever it dive into the big sea?If I ask the question,do I get all sorts of answers?
This card send me a really meaningful message for me....I love the message that the card wrote!

The card wrote," Few things are worse than being in the hug position and no one to hug!"....
What's your reaction if you got this card?
I felt really meaningful and love the penguin so much.....
What about you?

Monday, September 13, 2010

Forgive.....Ending




原谅说来简单做起来好难。。。

我现在的心情就是这样。当你很相信的人突然,告诉你他隐瞒了你做一些你很恨的事有两年。。。。你会是这样的心情呢?我的心好痛!真的有点不能接受!不是要如何是好?

如果发生在你们的身上你们会如何?

不过,我知道我要勇敢的面对。

原谅了他,怕后悔,怕他再骗我!不原谅又很舍不得!依赖了他五年。。。说久不久,说长不长。。。就像是失去了一双脚,不知道如何走路了!一直以来,以为自己很独立,很勇敢!

不过,当事情发生在自己身上,要分开了,才知道原来我很依赖他!

现在,分开了!真的要告诉自己到了时年啦!自己该学走路了!勇敢吧!

心,原来可以那么痛!

我真的很希望我心里的天空可以快点明亮起来!